The BEST part( from what I read), was that you lived in the moment, and left the world of "what if's".
This is so true. In your recent sitch, Crimson, we've seen you struggle with the impending D date, negative thoughts about your W's intentions/motives, expectations about what may or may not happen. Don't live in the past (depression) or the future/what if's (anxiety), because they will lead you astray.
Live in and accept your current reality always, as you did over the weekend. And you did so confidently, surprising her at the church and leading her to a good day of togetherness on Sunday. Good job!
Me-53 W-49 D22,D18,D15 T-Since-12/2001 Married-9/2004 She Moved Out-5/28/2010 Piecing start-04/2011 Now-together Thread http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2079304
