Thinking about how to handle this session with the family consulour this weekend. H wants a Lucy goosey custody arrangement and I want to nail down a plan. I feel like I am making it too easy for him.
Why do you feel like this? Do you want to make it harder on him to punish him or for you and the girls?
I would suggest you make your decisions based on love and acceptance as much as possible as opposed to anger/resentment and possibly wanting to be punitive. What would the result of that be?
