Brklyn Babe - as crappy as it is, I'm not sure if anyone who suspects their S of an affair, and has a shitload of evidence, but no smoking gun, finds out that it was all a mistake and a comedy of errors.
I'm not trying to bum you out, just saying that we rationalize our way to death's door trying to believe it cant be true. The only thing you can do, albeit hard under the circumstances, is to remember what an amazing Brklyn Babe you are, and an amazing Brkly Mom.
I seem to be on a LOTR kick today. I am thinking that like in that movie, these things happening to us are a purposeful spiritual test of our inner strength. We talk our way out of living based on our strengths and that we deserve happiness, that its our obligation to make that happen. Like LOTR we keep our M rings on and, just like the movie, the ring poison our minds. We rationalize the shitt out of their bad behavior.
25 and Ces are right. The time we spent being miserable, although perfectly understandable, was mostly a waste.
