I understand what you are saying but will they come out of it or is it who they are? The behavior seems worst then ever. Will it keep escalating or will they find peace one day?
Is that why we say : Our reaction might have something to do with it?

In my case, i choose not to deal with this any longer. It took way to much out of me. It drains me EMPTY! To many high and lows. I am finding balance once again. It has been so long, i had forgotten how good it feels.