It's used time and time again on here, but getting a life is key!!!
I have my kids 3 nights a week, so I don't have massive amount of time on my own, but what I do have I use!!
I go to the gym 3-4 times a week, is been a great help and made me feel great, made me feel better, and boosted my confidence!! When you go from benching 80kg to 140kg in 4 months, your waist line has dropped 4 inches, and your chest is bulging, you feel great, you also feel great about the fact your "wife" looks at you in a certain way!!! It happened to me again last night when I took my son home, her eyes were popping out of her head, I don't say anything, just smile knowingly!!
1 other thing, which I know people are not sure about, but helped me, is female company
The confidence of knowing a lady wants to spend time with you, as a person, really helps and makes you feel good about yourself!!!
Confidence is everything, from how you look, feel, to who wants to be with you!!
When you are confident and happy, she will find you more attractive, and think "what if"?? That's where I am now I think??
She is thinking "what if", she just needs to decide !!!
