I know I wasn't perfect, but I was pretty damn good to her. I KNOW that.
Just a little update:
S17 came back from her place tonight and told me something his mother found out about my family that I didn't even know. Apparently, I have a cousin with stage 3 breast cancer. I THINK X found this out from my SIL (brother's wife). For the record, I DO NOT trust SIL because I think she was one of a few that actually ENCOURAGED W to leave me. Yes, these days I have a hard time trusting anyone.
Another thing: X bought S17 new shoes this weekend. That was nice, but she had to throw in the comment to S17: "I'll get you some shoes since your father refuses to do what he is supposed to do with the child support." I hate this!!!! Why so negative still? She can't see ANYTHING nice about me. And why is she "brain-washing" him? She has spent the last year accusing me of brain-washing our sons. She is the one doing all of the brain-washing.
S17 also is starting to have more attitude when he comes back.
Tad
Currently: M 57 XW 58 Sons 39,34,32,30
The Sitch: Married 26 years EA w/ OM 9/10 Bomb 10/10 (5 weeks after 25th anniversary) Sep 12/10 She wants D 1/11 W files 5/11 D final 10/11 XW marries OM 6/13
