Thanks! The word divorce and the fact that she consulted a lawyer definitely scared me but like I told her, I respect and accept her for who she is and I do not want to be with someone that doesn't want to be with me.
I am just going to do my best to give her time and space and be the best person I can be.
I have gone through phases where I don't think I want to be with her, or at least the person she is now, but I will continue to have hope for our future for myself and our 3 kids.
Drinking has previously been a problem for me as well so I do my best to not overuse as i know things are much better and clearer when i don't drink at all.
What do you feel helped you progress with the detachment the most, if anything?
Thanks again and please continue to update and share, it really helps people like myself.
