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[BklynMom]

NLW, I have had same doubts tonight. Your mother in law can not predict the future and neither can you or your H. Enjoy each day you are given with your beautiful kids. You are truly blessed with wonderful, healthy kids. Write a gratitude list every morning.

With all due respect to 25 and the other posters on this board. I hate the phrase detachment. I always think "of course I am attached to my H, I married him." I know I know it means something else, but when I hear the word I stop listening.

My 2 cents, dont stop believing but start moving on and moving forward. Tell everyone you know that its over and you are moving on. Be as sweet as pie to him but stand your ground in the legal department. Drop the rope. He aint gonna wake up till he's rock bottom and on his knees. Give him a little push. (Sorry I am not in DB mode right now)