I'm bumping this thread because the more I've read on the link 4myfamily provided on the topic the more I ask myself,
"What came first, the BPD or the MLC?"
"Fear is the mind-killer" Muad'Dib Me 53, XW 44, DD 14, DS 12 Bomb and OM 12/15/06 Separated 01/02/07 Divorced 05/13/08 X married OM(OMH) 08/2009 Married 06/09/13