Hey BK Babe!! We both started a new thread today, bittersweet right? This is and will continue to be a long road. I am so proud of your growth and courage for yourself and your girls.
I think its best to stay firm w/ your values and boundaries no matter how upset your H gets.
Sorry about the info your friend gave you and I'm not quite sure why he would bring this to you with no confirmation. Are you planning on doing anything w/ this or just let it play its course?