and MY EA is hardly an EA you all probably dont believe it but the extent of our conversations had very little depth. usually it was just funny quotes from tv shows or a comment about someones previous post.
the fact that my wife would be going on dates with an OM and tell me the reason she wants a divorce is because i talked to another woman is what pisses me off.
Maybe she finds it hard to believe you would continue a R with a woman who just discussed funny quotes.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
