Not sure which is worse; the reality of an EA/PA or the suspicion of one that can lead our imaginations to dark places. Hope you can keep your mind to what is proven vs. what is potential. Not sure why our brains tend to take us to the worst places, but it seems to be a common challenge.
I think the family therapist is a good idea. Hopefully they can provide some clear options on what will be best for your girls (outside of a restored marriage, of course).
Good for you for standing your ground, keep it up. Hope you can find a good balance of GAL activities to focus on good things for you.
I've got the week to myself because W took kids back to our former home for spring break. My mental challenge is to focus on my life and not dwell on my sitch. Saw a post from someone over in the past day or so that said if they could change anything, they would have stopped giving so much their energy to the sitch and focus more on their own life. I'm trying to take that advice. Hope you can too. (Oh, and they did bust the divorce...)
Me:45, W:45 S:16 D:13 M:22, T:25 Bomb: July 2010 Putting finances in order for "D" Continue to live in same home-separate rooms
