So my H is busy getting this house ready to sell. I figured out he has a timeline. Which of course he isn't sharing. OW comes back mid-June for her final divorce date (In theory).
I think he wants to have this house sold and everything settled by then. By everything settled I mean me divorced, his money in his pocket and to be free to do what he wants.
He is getting very annoyed with my not doing anything to help get the house on the market. Talked with my Db phone coach yesterday and she suggested maybe I play along and work on getting the house ready for sale. To build closeness.
I make plans to do that and it makes me want to throw up. I think he is so determined to dump me that nothing matters. So I should put getting the house ready to sell under "Creating a New Beautiful Life For Me" but just can't get there.
The house is clean and food is stocked. But the big projects are just so darn out of my desire to do. I set little goals and am only getting half those done.
Blah! And my best friend wants to go hiking in a little while. Her bucket list is wearing me out!
Yesterday I was out most of the day doing quilt stuff and errands. My H told our S22 if he did yard work he would take him to the movies and McDonalds.
I got home last night, they were still out. I had gone to get take-out from our favorite Thai place. When H and S got home it turned out they had gone to dinner a bit earlier at the same place. Too funny!
Oh well I will spend one hour cleaning up the pile on the carport, so I will have made some progress!
Aloha,
Wendy
Me 57 XH 58 Sons age 32 & 27 M:32 D final 9/12 Bought 10 Acres and Living the Dream!
