regardless of what your situation is legally, you have a lawyer now.
Re-read Denver's post and follow it. You have no choice but to protect yourself NOW.
Doesn't make it "over" and in fact keeping the legal discussions between the L's tends to help smooth things over a bit between the spouses ("blame the L's" isn't a bad idea. It's what you are paying them for, at least in part).
Does it get more expensive that way?
Well, IN YOUR SITCH you'd be as nutty as your h if you think following his advice will save YOU money.
Sorry for the bluntness but I just want you to be able to separate the issues. Yes, compartmentalize...
you really have to atm.
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M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016