I am so worried that four months from now I will be divorced and completely lost (if we move) or abandoned (if I don't). I trust that DB works, but what if I cannot wait it out? I am ready to change and let W see over time, but what if I don't have time?
You are making changes for YOU, not as a tactic to WIN her back. DB works but maybe not the way you are expecting.
I hope you moving out has some sort of legal back up.
Because if not when your week is over and you have trusted her and find out that the trust was incorrect, well then where will you be?
You have asked for advice, sounds like you are ignoring it and doing what you think might be right.
Your wife has already proved to be untrustworthy, so why are you trusting her?
