"A bit later she texted back "I'll be at the 9 AM church tomorrow". Now I have my moments when I am dumb as a bag of hair clippings, but was that an invite for church?"
That was 100% an invitation. In women talk, statements are questions and questions are statements.
Originally Posted By: 2thepoint
But to be on the safe side, maybe you can send a text that says something like "mind if S and I join you tomorrow?"
Not this way -- this is weak and implicitly devalues you (why should someone mind if someone of value was joining them).
Originally Posted By: 2thepoint
Or if you want to be cute, you could say, "funny, S and I were going to be there at excatly the same time. What a coincidence! ;o)"
Potentially better, flip it in an active, confident (flirty?) way. I'll be there with S too. Let's hook up at ### spot."
you also could just show up with S looking good and give her a little surprise.
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