Together Since We Were 15...Now Piecing

[Jenna333]

I understand what you're saying. It's like with DBing, our positive changes (hopefully) attract our spouse. Even if they don't, WE decide how to feel, and to not let occurrences control our feelings. PMA attracts positive changes.

Thanks!

You know, I didn't question J about what he did last night when we were talking about his night out this morning. That was a 180 for me. We had a nice time talking and hanging out. He could feel it. He was being so lovey with me. That's when I think the guilt got to him and instead of burying it deep inside himself like he used to do, he came to me and told me the truth. My positive attitude and changes affected him, and he wanted to do what his better, changed self would do.