Yes he did say he was still having the affair, and he just does not know what he wants. We have not talked since he left so I do not know what he wants to do now.
I still want to move past the affair. I felt I had moved past the first one and stopped checking up on him, but then I started to feel him pull away again and started snooping.
As of right now I have no idea what is going to happen. I think we neeed a seperation so that he can really see if the grass is greener.
I am working on staying dark now. He does not even want to speak with me. He call the kids and hangs up right away. They are now asking why daddy does not want to talk to me.
