By confronting her on the affairs it just led her to push me out quicker. Immediately after the confrontation she manipulated me by using my financial status to froce me out of the apartment, only to have OM move in. Although, if I hadn't she would be cake eating, so I guess in retrospect I was danged anyway.
Things are looking better now for me personally, but I don't know if the M is going to survive as W is deep in fantasy land.
M:35 W:33 M: 5 yrs. Daughter: 2 yr .7/11/10 D Final: 8/7/12