I am doing better with detaching. Keeping busy in daily life helps. Its when laying in my bed alone that I find myself in a dark place emotionaly. Time has helped some.
Boudan- cajun food. Rice, pork parts, and lots of spices, in a sausage like casing.
My cooking instructions. Place on grill (not over HOT coals) close lid for 5-10min to get a little smoke infused. Then wrap in foil with a splash or two of warm beer to keep moist. Cook over med-low till the casing dissolves (about 30 min.) Mmmm. Mmmm. Good.