Hey BF, it really is hard when we think about the impact on our kids. I think you're doing awesome by being positive with them and making great memories. That will be the biggest benefit you can give them.

Glad your H took the reminder about his weekend well. That's good for all of you!

You're right that your H made the decision about the M, but its awesome that you are still making YOUR decisions to live your life and demonstrate happiness and joy for you and your boys!

Hope you have a great weekend and fun on the island!


Me:45, W:45
S:16 D:13
M:22, T:25
Bomb: July 2010
Putting finances in order for "D"
Continue to live in same home-separate rooms