Ro, have you been following this thread? I thought about you when I read it last night.

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2229337#Post2229337

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Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss