NLW, have you read How To Improve Your Marriage Without Talking About It? I saw where you posted that H had really not been angry until the financial discussions began. The book explores the feelings men have about being "the Provider" and the shame that engulfs them when they feel they have failed in that. They are taken over by it and react from that place of shame.
It might help you to understand where he is and forewarned is forearmed.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
