Wow NLW. Just read some of the most recent posts on your thread. You need to go LRT on your H. ASAP.
You both have lawyers. All communication should be through them. I am a L, and technically, when both parties have representation, communication regarding whatever the legal issue is, here divorce, should be through that representation. Next time your H makes any kind of demand on you, tell him to have his people contact your's. end of story. Do not play this game with him.
Go LRT. Now. And, if you are still in this to save your M, tell your L to do whatever is necessary to drag things out as long as possible. F what your H thinks he wants. He's out of his mind, and is thinking only of selfish needs and desires.
What state are you in? What is the 'cooling off' period under that state's divorce law?
Hang in there. This is tough stuff.
Denver
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce