First of all, han you for your kind words and support.
MNC, I am willing to fight, but I know that no matter what, I will life for me. I know that we can make it, both of us are still young and we can have the life we have dreamed.
MMVC: I thik I will research to find another C, one who is pro marriage. This will be my task for next week.
Now, yesterday was a tough day. I screwed everything up. It was on Thirsday evening when I had finished my lesson when I passed by his appartment (he is planning on moving on the next few days but he was always lying about it). The appt is on my way, I didn't pass on purpose. I saw OW's car parked there. I got really angry and went up. I rang the bell, but there was no answer. so I called his family and exposed the A. Everything. I told them all the details, along with the OW's name.
I left. Once I left he called me and invited me up. We end up fighting as he was lying. He then showed me the invoice from his lawyer for filing the D. I was shocked. I went home, but at that night I sent him at least 15 sms with very bad language in them.
On Friday I was so upset that I didn't go to work. I talked to his lawyer and he gave me the details on how to proceed.
I think everything is over now. I do not think we can beat this... I am really disappointed on the one hand, but on the other I believe that it is ok, I am still young and I can still find someone who will WANT to be with me because he LOVES me. Not because he feels he has to .
Thank you all...
Me: BW 30 Him: WH 31 T 12 years, M 3.5 No kids OW 27 single ex co-worker
Bomb: 13/07/2011 S: 13/07/2011 - 16/09/2011 H came Home 16/09/2011 Dday: 01/10/2011 H left again 23/11/2011
