WLA,
I think that is an excellent gameplan.

Your w has her agenda and if she gets p!ssed that you aren't doing everything in YOUR power to accommodate HER agenda...

... so be it.

I agree...You have bigger things to concern yourself with.

Speaking of... Does your w know?

M(f): 40
D'ed: 8/12

Show empathy when there's pain. Show grace when warranted. Kindness in the midst of anger. Faith in the face of fear.

Love at all costs because you are loved well.