We can have all the proof in the world sometimes and yet when we our WAS hurts us.. we are shocked at their lack of respect or love for us....
.... we cannot ever imagine that they would hurt us that way.
But they do and yes.. you will survive. The kind of wound created today was very deep for you.. one that will take awhile to heal....
...but it will.
And I really want to emphasize not acting on your feelings. When I found out in July about my w dating already.. I thought... "she could not hurt me anymore than this".....
...but in this year.. I have realized that although that action hurt like he!!.. it didn't compare to the lack of respect she shows me.
In the moment.. in July... I thought it was a deal breaker.. but now..after many months of personal growth and reflection.. I have learned what my deal breakers really are.
You will too.
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M(f): 40 D'ed: 8/12
Show empathy when there's pain. Show grace when warranted. Kindness in the midst of anger. Faith in the face of fear.
