I did have a light bulb moment today. I realized by being so sad I am giving my H so much power over me.
Yes! And you have to be careful, when going through this whole experience, not to give up enjoying life in the meantime.
What if you had a crystal ball and KNEW - FOR CERTAIN - that you H would be back in one year, or, that one year from now you would be madly in love with a fabulous new man?
Wouldn't you relax and enjoy smelling the roses now, knowing that it would all turn out fine in the end?
Well, it all WILL turn out fine in the end - because you are learning and growing through this DB process, and whatever happens, you are going to make a great life for yourself. So remember to enjoy the present. Don't waste too much of it stressing over what may or MAY NOT happen in the future.
