i've been really inspired by your posts, mimi. our sitches aren't exactly the same, yet you have a way of describing exactly what i'm feeling but haven't been able to articulate too well. sending some good thoughts your way.
Thanks. I'm glad my posts have had some kind of value for someone other than myself. So, I cheated a bit today and called H. I succumbed to feeling down and sick, but I was determined to keep the convo short and pleasant, and at least I accomplished that much. H seemed happy to hear from me and we talked briefly about a movie he was about to watch and made plans for tomorrow. I don't know if I did the right thing. I'm making things all about him right now, and that doesn't sound exactly healthy. How can I possibly detach this way? I guess I am not ready for the pain of a true S yet.
Mimi
M:37; H:37; M:10 years;T:13 years;no kids. Bomb ("I love you, but don't feel things for you I should":1/08/12 Separated (H living with various friends:1/18/12 Separated (H rented his own apartment:3/4/12
So, I cheated a bit today and called H. I succumbed to feeling down and sick, but I was determined to keep the convo short and pleasant, and at least I accomplished that much. H seemed happy to hear from me and we talked briefly about a movie he was about to watch and made plans for tomorrow. I don't know if I did the right thing. I'm making things all about him right now, and that doesn't sound exactly healthy. How can I possibly detach this way? I guess I am not ready for the pain of a true S yet. 