I agree 25...

mostly


but I have to say that doing nothing and letting the kids run wild (and by doing nothing I mean, not calling the police, not calling child protective services etc) he is just as guilty as the ex

because I don't care who they say they want to live with

if they are running around
underage
unsupervised
getting suspended from school
hanging out with people who do drugs (lets just assume they are doing drugs and drinking because odds are on that they are)

then they need to be taken away
from ex
antlers

and put somewhere where there IS supervision


and that is what a parent does

the dirty work