Husband left me...feel hopeless

[Jenna333]

(((Stephanie))) Your sitch is very different from mine. When my H left he had a list of faults of mine to throw in my face. We do have the broken trust in common. He said he couldn't be with someone who didn't trust him. I did have valid reasons to not trust him, mind you.

I fear that your H is just truly unhappy with himself and it has nothing to do with you, so there's nothing you can *do* to 'fix' this. With my sitch, as soon as H saw me changing, he was drawn to me like a moth to the flame. I don't think that's very typical.

Your H needs to find himself, as cliche as that sounds. He sounds truly lost. Only time will tell. I'm so sorry you're going through this. Focus on yourself. It's all you can do. Do what makes you happy and that has nothing to do with H. I know I enjoyed blasting music that he hated, watching movies that he'd groan about when I'd watch them during our R. I didn't have to wash his smelly socks anymore Small steps at first. You have to find the silver lining that gets you through.