well i did stop snooping i only did it that once. i think its ok for my emotions to be up and down when it seems like everyday something happens or goes on. i know its not the reason she wants a divorce but im sure it plays into why she wouldn't want to work on our marriage.
and MY EA is hardly an EA you all probably dont believe it but the extent of our conversations had very little depth. usually it was just funny quotes from tv shows or a comment about someones previous post.
the fact that my wife would be going on dates with an OM and tell me the reason she wants a divorce is because i talked to another woman is what pisses me off.