Rick, this is largely rhetorical. Only you know when it’s time to move on. I am such a novice at this business. Having said that, I would not blame you for moving on. Sisyphus has nothing on you…
BTW - how cool would it be if she came out of it? Would you be happy?

Ray - I can't imagine her coming out of it. That doesn't mean it can't happen because she's in charge of whatever/wherever she ends up. Trying to trust the process for her and her path, and handle the damage as it occurs.

I would have said at one time, I would be insanely happy. Now, I know more about myself - what I don't want and what I do want to be and experience. And I'm not sure of her anymore, not just the psyche issues which are ongoing, but what about life choices made and my thought on their morality? I'm still goose stepping to CA, and getting shot at while I'm doing it.

Time will tell. I'm asking all the questions for me, why not, even if they are thinking outloud on this board.