Number one it is never hopeless until YOU decide that it is.
There can always be HOPE just without EXPECTATIONS.
Your DB coach is correct to just carry on with YOUR life.
RO you are still very early in this. You are seeing lots of back and forth. That is typical for the time FRAME that you are in.
But I must say that for everyone here on this board, when you get the BOMB your marriage is over, you must be able to pick yourself up dust your self off and HOPE that you can get yourself to a place that can build a new marriage.
Their are no shortcuts, easy button, pills or magic wands that are going to get you there.
It is all on you, YOU get to decide it all.
That is MHO.
I agree 100% with everything you said.
That OM=NM thing caught me off guard I guess. Wasn't sure whether you meant if there's OM/OW in the picture that pretty much equals NM or not.
