I agree that you need to use LRT, at this point if you are providing for any needs while she is with the OM then she is cake eating, that must stop.
OM = NM (No marriage)
For Cadet...whenever he swings by...
Okay, so I have to ask. Do you also tell women OW=NM? My H is having an A. If I saw this on my thread, I'd feel kinda hopeless. My coach gave me different advice (basically carry on with my life), so I'm just asking your opinion.
