Wife in the slightly slower "Amtrack D mode" now..

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Having faith in the process and working WITH divine...very, very good point. Maybe I see things a little black or white too and am ignoring common sense. Work with...adding to my Solution Journal

So, we have movement in my sitch...texts this morning he is going to be at S16's hockey game tonight and it would be "cool if I was there" (originally said to him that I would not care to be anywhere he is when he moved out) to which I replied "see you tonight" and then he says "looking forward to it" with some extras about work he did around house yesterday when I was absent. I laugh at Monkey's comment to wife to get dressed as I am contemplating what to wear to outdoor hockey game this evening. How do you handle this? Have y'all done it? What DO you talk about? I am a nervous wreck. Tempted to stop at a bar on the way for a glass of wine! LOL! JK as that would make me weepy and emotional probably and mess things up entirely. Tempting idea though.

So the DB state of mind is "I am okay without you and if I see you, then cool???" Can I reach this BEFORE I reach state of acceptance in mourning my marraige? Or is it a zig zag back and forth?

Detachment thoughts helpful too. Thanks everyone. Hope this is not considered hijacking your thread, Monkey. Just wondering when you did see your wife (when picked up uniforms) what you talked about...wondering if I have a full game of small talk at hockey game with this H of mine. So strange...so, so strange.