Considering Quixote

[AlwaysTrying]

A lot of people will recommend against leaving the home if you can avoid it.

I fought very hard against it myself, and I think it was not for the best. My wife trying to distance herself from me felt very bad. I only moved out of the house after she caught me snooping on her and gave me an ultimatum. I guess snooping was actually the big error there. Things were actually kind of improving. I wish I had DB then.

Well, I moved out and it was awful, but after a month, my wife started thinking about taking me back and working out our stuff. At that very same time, being unaware of that fact and miserable out of the house, I moved home without giving her a chance to veto me.

It's very painful for me to write this now because I know that at that moment, I doomed my family to so much pain.

Anyway, what I'm saying is that in some situations, I think getting out of the house can be a positive thing in healing the relationship.

Definitely get that agreement worked out first!