Let me ask you this. Once you move out for "your turn away" what is to stop her from changing the locks on you thereby forcing you to take her to court? You already stated you don't make enough to support one household how are you going to afford the house and an apartment on one income? W wants the D and you do not? She has OM in the picture. She is cake eating big time and you are a doormat. Not very attractive is it?
I would not move out if I were you. I would not even move "back home". If she wants to D you then IMHO she should get a job and move into her own apartment. What is it that you want? I think you need to set some boundaries with her and I agree with Cadet. OM=NM
M 44 W 43 S 23 S 15 INILWY 9/11 Divorce Mediation started 3/13 June 30 the day W is moving out