You are absolutely right. Looks like I now have gotten sick from the two kids, just my luck.
My W has told me that she has fealt on her own for the longest time (handling the bills, watching the kids) that she feels like a single parent.
Two of my 180's are to be more active with the kids and two have more of an active role in the budget. Today was the first payday we are doing this. Not saying anything to W just depositing the money into the account. Asked her what else we will need for the upcoming weeks so we can plan ahead. And with the kids I have not touched my work when they are awake.
Maybe I am pondering too much, but if someone feels like they are on their own won't and you are giving them the space they want doesn't this just validate their opinion? Am I crazy for thinking this?
