I told D that if DtM is that sick, he has decades of his life to prey on someone else and it's not her job to save his marriage.
AT - This is a key point. Even if you all can put this behind you, does this leave open the opportunity for someone else to be hurt?
I had a situation at work one time where I was presented with evidence of a guy at work being FAR LESS than professional (and we'll just leave it at that). After conducting a few interviews I had found out that several ladies had been impacted by his actions. No one spoke up. Each one said that they addressed it and it never happened to them again. No one thought about it happening to others and others being impacted.
The only time I really enjoyed firing someone....
You all have to make the best decision for you but something to think about.
Me:45, W:45 S:16 D:13 M:22, T:25 Bomb: July 2010 Putting finances in order for "D" Continue to live in same home-separate rooms