I know exactly how you feel. Again, “the tyranny of the present.” In the initial weeks each day seems an eternity. When the day finally does come to an end its only because of the medicinal compassion of sleep aids. I’m 3.5 months in and I still take something to sleep nearly every night. Fortunately the days are much easier. My salvation? My friends here on this board and our commonality. Learning to like/love myself again, accepting the painful fact that the WAS is gone, and keeping VERY busy. I have found LRT, while effective, is not a quick fix. One really needs to have patience boarding on that of a sage. If you are not patient you will positively drive yourself crazy. Your husband, and my wife, will continue to be cold. Being cold and detached is their way of reassuring themselves they have made the correct choice in leaving us. In the long run (I hope) our use of detachment will provide personal strength and cause the WAS to pause.
Rick, please feel free to chime in here since you have been at this much longer than I.
Me: 44 Bomb: 11/27/11 Divorced:6/12 Life goes on: 6/13
