Specifics, please! Can't afford telephone consult!

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Okay, 25, thank you, thank you, thank you....I am calling a DB coach today. You are correct, he will not miss a cold woman. My IC is great but she definitely leans more toward Dobson's Tough Love theory - which is go and be gone, etc...and her other "solutions" to issues with S16 have been a little "harsh" if you know what I mean, and we are strict parents, trust me. I think I must be thinking in the "punish" mode by choosing to be absent. IC has NOT read this book. I reread it last night and was wondering if I was in LRT or After the LRT. Thanks...you cleared it up and I am a bit confused. Six weeks in I suppose this is normal

Rewriting goals. Want him home. Why would I leave? It feels SOOOO weird to think he would drive up and knock on the door???? What do people do?

The relationship between the hockey season and the funeral flowers is that he is doing what is important to him right now and it obviously is not S16's hockey game or S18's college break but IS OW's pain from losing her mother which means pains for me that we are discarded. Maybe melodramatic...our home is important because he did come over and mow and repair stuff.