I told her no, but she started to cry. So I went up with her. No contact in bed though. Not sure if that is part of db'n or not, but I didn't take that ticket this time TG.
DB'ing is to do what works, but be sure to note what happened here, you pulled back she did not get her way, she started to cry, you gave in.
As long as YOU are OK with that it is fine.
Going back to page one we said that you were enabling.
Is this more of the same?
I am not saying what you did is wrong, but just look at and be responsible for your part.
Her crisis is hers, not yours. Just do what YOU need to DO for YOU. Not as a tactic to win her back.
