Going dark for me is very hard. Since we barely talk now I welcome any interaction the two of us have. It seems like she is fighting with herself to keep the wall up, it goes down a little then she works twice as hard to keep it up.
Is that what you want to happen?
Are you helping her build the strong wall she needs to keep you out?
I would guess all she thinks about you right now is how much you are driving her crazy and wondering why you don't get it when she tells you it's over.
And forget that she said she wants to be friends. Saying that just makes the WAS feel better.
If you want to work at this, leave her be.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
