Thank you all for your replies. I have to admit this encounter was pretty scary. However, before I walked to my car, I walked toward him and got real close to him and ran my hand down his tie, looked him in the eye and told him that, "all I want for him is his happiness, and he appears to have many regrets". I caught him so off guard. When I did this he moved closer to me, but told me to get away from him. It spoke volumes and I guess I wanted to show him that his bullying meant nothing to me.

I could not sleep last night thinking of all this. I guess it is time for no contact again.

Me: 46 H:44
Together: 25 years
Married: 20 years
Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07
OW: EA began 2005
PA began end of 2006
3 children,20, 16, 6
ex asked for forgiveness
01/16/11