Trusting, I am so sorry that he went off on you like that. However, I'm w/Seeking...you have been on your xh's mind for quite a while. He's definitely regretting the grass is greener illusion, but doesn't or can't acknowledge that he is the reason that his life is the way it is today. As for questioning you about meeting someone and getting married again, you have puzzled him. He actually thought you would do this, but what I think is that he had hoped you would do this to alleviate the guilt for him. I also think he's doing a heck of a lot of projecting on to you for his problems. He still has not grown up and owned his mistakes.
Please do not take any of what he said to heart...it's projection. As I always say, he's not baked yet.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
