Welcome to the board.

No you should try to keep this place a secret and since you have already given him the books just let go of that part for now.

There is a chance that he won't read it or do the work anyway, so it may not matter.

DO not tell him anything else, it is like giving the opposing team your playbook.

It is also controlling and very unlikely to help.

You can not FIX him as YOU did not BREAK him.
That is going to be up to him and you must let him go and give hime space.

Sorry you are on moderation but keep posting in small frequent quantities and you will get off.

Also please hit carriage return when you post to make them a little easier to read.

Welcome to the board.


Me-70, D37,S36