7 Years in. Time to give up ?

[BeingMe]

Yes, that's the way we will go, as long as he's honest and fair. He is the one who has control over our finances, and he doesn't allow me in too much. I've mostly been the SAHM, unless we need the extra money, then I will go out to work as secretaries or receptionist. I am at uni now trying to get a degree, so I can earn my own money. But, I think he will have to pay me alimony until I'm on my feet. I lost a lot of time getting over a bout with cancer ... got lots of making up to do re jobs. I do want at least one appointment with an attorney to check what my rights are, and where to go from there. I have found one who also does mediation, and that may be the way to go.

Thanks for the advice.