Totally missed your questions....

OW (nasty 26 year old) has a green card marriage to a foreign national...someone she met in Italy when she was there studying abroad. Ick. Two or three years ago or something gross like that. My L says that will be an issue if we ever go to D as she is filing joint tax returns and using airline for flight privileges and other benefits and she will be deposed as an adulterer since Georgia is a fault state divorce.

Yes, OW's mother just passed away. OW is 26. Her mother was 54. My husband is almost 46. We are closer to her parents age than her...my husband could be her father...when we were dancing at our wedding she was in diapers....

Sorry, used GF as girlfriend and not grandfather....my anger is thwarting my good sense.


Me: 44 H: 45
Married 22
S 18, S 16
Bomb 8/11, Second Bomb 1/12