Well ex showed up to my daughter's parent/teacher conference.
After the conference he started talking about how miserable he is with his life. I made the mistake of asking him why he was so unhappy and he spewed and spewed about how I wrecked his life. He made some very interesting comments and statements. He said that if it was not for me, we would have been retired by now living on a beach in Hawaii. He wanted to know why I have not married yet and why I did not bring any man around the kids. I told him my life is none of his business and I don't expose the kids to men I date. He was so very angry that I decided to walk to my car. He got more upset when I did this and started yelling at me to not walk away from him. It was really pathetic. I had not seen him spew like that in a long time. I remained calm for the most part. Well, I really don't think the grass is greener for him and he can't face up to looking at what he has done.


Me: 46 H:44
Together: 25 years
Married: 20 years
Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07
OW: EA began 2005
PA began end of 2006
3 children,20, 16, 6
ex asked for forgiveness
01/16/11